Narcotic Love – In and Out of the Coma of Narcissistic Abuse

A guide to detect and survive narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships.

Narcotic Love guides you through the horrific, and yet, life-changing journey of narcissistic abuse, explained through personal experience and research. It answers the questions, why we got involved, how we were manipulated, what we had to endure during the cycle of abuse, and how we can heal ourselves to prevent these situations altogether. Narcotic Love rips off the mask from narcissistic abusers and offers valuable advice to victims to empower and become strong survivors.

At 30, I was done. Done with toxic people. Done with the abuse. Done with feeling not good enough. While I had dealt with many narcissists in all areas of my life, it was not until I finally loved one that my life was turned upside down. When the first suicidal thought crossed my mind after merely five months into our relationship, I dared to walk away, break all contact, and start my healing journey. Two months later, NARCOTIC LOVE was born – a guide to survive narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships. This book was written by a survivor for other survivors or victims who unfortunately still find themselves in a toxic situation. You are not crazy. You are not alone. You are enough. You can survive.

Language: English
ISBN-10: 1999212209
ISBN-13: 978-1-9992122-0-9
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Essential Guide for Victims of Narcissistic Abuse
Reviewed in Canada on December 12, 2019
Narcotic Love is an indispensable resource for any woman trapped in an abusive relationship with a narcissist, or recently escaped from an abusive relationship with a narcissist. Drawing on her experiences as a survivor, Ziolkowski pulls no punches in exposing the tactics and techniques used by narcissistic abusers, and offers helpful insight and tools to get free of the toxicity and trauma.

Resources and comfort for victims of narcissistic abuse
Reviewed in Canada on January 15, 2020
In her book, Sarah Ziolkowski offers an account of her own experience with narcissistic abuse as well as an overview of the subject and helpful resources. Each chapter ends with questions that are engaging and invite readers to reflect.
The author effectively describes the strategy of abusive narcissists as well as the discrepancy between their outward behavior and internal motivation.
She lays out different types of abuse, the role of cognitive dissonance and offers suggestions on how to reclaim your life. The author emphasizes the importance of taking time to heal, setting boundaries and exploring our own needs and vulnerabilities. Building a support system is key. This book can help you do that.

Very good book
Reviewed in Germany on February 3, 2020
For me this book was very helpful. I could find myself in almost every chapter. If you are interested to read about narcisstic abuse or even are in a narcisstic relationship, you should read it. You will learn about the red flags, the manipulation and will start to understand everything.