Knowing When to Quit

One of the hardest decisions we face in our lives is knowing when to quit. We humans are creatures of habit and, thus, we have a tendency to cling to outdated concepts, routines, relationships, and believes; a comfort zone that we do not want to leave even though it has Continue Reading

Workaholism: a Self-Destructive Coping Mechanism

For most part of my life, I used to call myself a workaholic. I used to be proud of my achievements and the careers I was building, and wore this badge with honor to the demise of my overall well-being. It was not until I had reached a breaking point Continue Reading

“What are your strengths?” a Useless Question

Have you ever left a job interview feeling stripped down and misjudged? Have you ever followed up later and seen who actually got the job with your head shaking, “How is this possible?“ In a time where sociopathy is on the rise, “What are your strengths?” seems like a useless Continue Reading

What is narcissistic abuse?

Narcissistic abuse in intimate relationships is the systematic destruction of a narcissist’s partner for his/her personal gain of narcissistic supply. Victims supply a narcissist in various ways, e.g. attention, housing, transportation, money, sex, food, status, jobs, etc. Narcissistic abuse follows a universally recognizable pattern divided in the four phases: Idealization or Love-bombing Devaluation Discard Continue Reading

Vancouver: BWSS 40 Years Later

Last Monday, I attended BWSS’s 40 Years Later celebration at the Orpheum in Vancouver with special guest Tarana Burke, the founder of the #MeToo movement. BWSS stands for Battered Women’s Support Services and was founded 40 years ago by two brave women who would not give up to fight and Continue Reading

NarcoticLove.com

About the book Please click here. What this page IS about NarcoticLove.com is a source of information on narcissistic abuse in addition to the same-called book Narcotic Love: In and Out of the Coma of Narcissistic Abuse. It provides blog posts and a form of community for victims and survivors Continue Reading